Fix build errors and add more targets to Windows builds (#6811)

* Fix common.fbs rename (due to apache/arrow/commit/bef9a1c251397311a6415d3dc362ef419d154caa)

* Add missing COPTS

* Use socketpair(AF_INET) if boost::asio::local is unavailable (e.g. on Windows)

* Fix compile bug in service_based_gcs_client_test.cc (fix build breakage in #6686)

* Work around googletest/gmock inability to specify override to avoid -Werror,-Winconsistent-missing-override

* Fix missing override on IsPlasmaBuffer()

* Fix missing libraries for streaming

* Factor out install-toolchains.sh

* Put some Bazel flags into .bazelrc

* Fix jni_md.h missing inclusion

* Add ~/bin to PATH for Bazel

* Change echo $$(date) > $@ to date > $@

* Fix lots of unquoted paths

* Add system() call checks for Windows

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streaming/src/test/queue_tests_base.h

@@ -21,6 +21,10 @@ class StreamingQueueTestBase : public ::testing::TestWithParam<uint64_t> {
         store_executable_(store_exe),
         actor_executable_(actor_exe),
         node_manager_port_(port) {
+#ifdef _WIN32
+    RAY_CHECK(false) << "port system() calls to Windows before running this test";
+#endif
+
     // flush redis first.
     flushall_redis();